With Christmas just around the corner and so many people to buy gifts for, the hours and money can start to wear thin by the time you finally get around to thinking about what to get for that special person in your life. It seems as though the people we're closest to often get the short end of the stick. Well, not this year. Wether she's already yours or a project in the making, let's get her something to remember you by and reward you for with styleshark's list of

CHRISTMAS GIFTS TO PUT HER IN A GRATEFUL MOOD

LINGERIE ($25+)

Again, the best way to get your woman in the spirit for "giving" is to make her feel sexy, and nothing makes a woman feel sexy like lingerie. Lingerie is one of those gifts that ends up being a gift for you too if the act of giving alone doesn't do it for you. Seeing her dressed in something sexy you picked out is sure to work its magic on the both of you. Some men are intimidated by the thought of picking out underwear for a woman but it's much easier than it looks. Just sneak a peak in her underwear drawer at her other sizes (don't get caught doing this, it might have an adverse effect). Knowing her size and receiving help from the sales clerk who's bound to be well-informed should be enough to get the job done. At Christmas time it might be a good idea to avoid anything leather, lace-up or crotchless. She'll get the idea without the cut-outs.

GIFT CERTIFICATE TO A RESTAURANT ($35+)

A commitment compromise. So you're not saying you love her but you do care enough to block out some time in the future to spend with her. Please spare her the coupons where you've hastily scrawled "redeemable date". That counts as a non-gift. Think of a restaurant, tapas place or wine bar that she likes or that you've visited together and fork over the estimated amount in advance. Now you've secured an evening of wining and dining with an almost guaranteed round of physical dessert. On a budget, consider a romantic home-cooked meal to avoid her selecting the Dom Perignon and Foie Gras or create a basket with a blanket, a couple DVDs and a more modest gift certificate to the local take-out place and let her know it's a care package for a long night in together. Oddly enough, sometimes the less expensive option is the most romantic, since it requires more thought. If you're not keen on setting a date, even for dinner, a similar effect can be created with a gift certificate to her favorite store.

MAGAZINE SUBSCRIPTION ($20+)

The longer you can draw out the effects of your gift-giving, the better. Receiving something from you on her doorstep every month without you even having to lift a finger will secure steady intervals of appreciation. If you know of a magazine that tickles her fancy, you've got a definite shot at getting her to want to tickle yours.

GIFT CERTIFICATE TO A SPA ($25+)

Every woman loves to be pampered and I'm sure every man who can would love to have someone else take care of it. Although most people may think that a gift certificate to a spa is expensive, it can be extremely affordable. With facials, manicures and pedicures starting at low prices like $25 to $40, almost every man's woman can be pampered by a pro, and nothing puts a woman in the mood like making her feel like, or reminding her she is beautiful. On a really tight budget, there's nothing like a $4 bottle of bubble bath and some dollar store candles to create a romantic home spa she'll never forget.

CONCERT TICKETS ($30+)

Taking an interest in the things your (prospective) woman is interested in may require extra effort, but it reaps extra rewards. If you don't want to go along with her, get her an extra ticket for her to bring a friend. Now you've secured yourself a night with the guys watching the game, and a special 'thank you' treat upon her return later on.